Take an insiders look at some of the thought processes, and internal dialogue that two people attending the same church event move through:
First timer | Long term member | |
Before leaving home | I wonder if people will be friendly? Will I have to awkwardly stand on my own?Maybe I’ll wait until next week. I better not, I say that every week. I wonder how long it will go for? | I’m so looking forward to seeing everyone today. |
Parking | Is this where I’m supposed to drive in. Where is the building entrance? | Hurry hurry hurry |
Walking to the building | Here we go…I have no idea what this is going to be like. Where is the entrance? I hope I’m not too early! | Why are we always running late? Are the kids all with us? |
Stepping inside | This looks interesting, I’m glad there are a few people here already. No one I know though. | Oh there’s, Alex, Hi! |
Choosing a seat | Can I sit anywhere? I don’t want to get in anyone’s way. I’ll just sit here and check my phone. | There are our seats. Oh, it looks like the Wilkinsons are still away. |
Prayers of intercession | What does intercession mean? Do I have to say anything? Why are some people looking down and others aren’t? I’ll just listen. | I’m glad I put that prayer request in. I am worried about Jo & Tim, its good to spend some time in prayer for them. |
Passing of the peace | Why are we doing this? What do I do? I’ve never done this in my life. (someone offers a handshake) Oh well, I guess we just shake hands. I hope I wasn’t supposed to say anything. | Peace be with you |
Offering | Do I need to give? Is it bad if I don’t? I don’t want to be rude….I feel rude. | Our direct deposit is all set up. I love this community. |
End of the service | Phew, yes I could use a cup of tea. Where do I go? Actually, that is a lot of people, I might just duck out. | I’ve got to talk to James about the meeting next week and Ian wanted to give me something. Oh and I haven’t said hi to Jane in ages there she is, I’ll go over. |